Let’s make this easy.
Here are a few of the questions couples commonly have before reaching out.
How far in advance should we reach out?
As soon as you have a date and venue in mind is a great time to start. If your wedding is coming up soon, reach out anyway—availability changes, and I’m happy to see what may be possible.
Can you customize our ceremony?
Absolutely. The ceremony should reflect your relationship and the experience you want your guests to have. We’ll talk through the tone, structure, vows, readings, and personal stories.
Do you perform non-religious ceremonies?
Yes. I’m happy to create a ceremony that is secular, spiritual, faith-centered, or a blend that feels right for you.
Do you travel outside Oklahoma City?
Yes. Married by Tom serves couples throughout Oklahoma. Travel details can be discussed when we talk about your date and venue.
Do you attend the rehearsal?
Rehearsal support can be included when it makes sense for your plans. We’ll discuss what will help you feel most prepared.
How do we get started?
Send a note through the availability form with your date, location, and a little about your plans. I’ll follow up so we can have a relaxed conversation.
Your questions are welcome.
There’s no pressure to have everything figured out before you reach out.
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